hillman Posted December 5, 2021 Share Posted December 5, 2021 2 hours ago, Mudfly said: Prayers sent. Just know that this happens more than you realize. Most people don’t talk about it. We lost a pregnancy at nearly 3.5 months. Not fun. just remember that no matter what or how you feel you wife is feeling 10x worse. Be extra caring and supportive. She will need it. I know so much about this many times over and Mudfly gave the best advice. Many couples have this happen once and others not so lucky You and your lady will be fine mader- odds are with you to the others, if you know a young couple who do not have children yet please don't ask them when they are going to start a family! they may be having trouble or may not ever be able to have a child and your asking could be causing more hurt than you can imagine behind the scenes I am speaking from experience and it can be life changing ( Thats more about my personal life than I have ever posted) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doug in NY Posted December 5, 2021 Share Posted December 5, 2021 Thoughts and prayers for you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IHRedRyan Posted December 5, 2021 Share Posted December 5, 2021 Thoughts and Prayers from Ontario. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Farmall1066 Posted December 5, 2021 Share Posted December 5, 2021 35 minutes ago, hillman said: to the others, if you know a young couple who do not have children yet please don't ask them when they are going to start a family! they may be having trouble or may not ever be able to have a child and your asking could be causing more hurt than you can imagine behind the scenes I am speaking from experience and it can be life changing ( Thats more about my personal life than I have ever posted) You are spot on with this!!! My wife and I never were able to conceive, and my wife still won’t go to most baby showers. I have my days every now and again, where I wonder why we weren’t blessed in the children department, but there are also days I’m glad we don’t have children, like these times we are in now. You, and your wife will be in my thoughts and prayers @mader656 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TractormanMike.mb Posted December 5, 2021 Share Posted December 5, 2021 Sending my deepest condolences. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Craig61019 Posted December 5, 2021 Share Posted December 5, 2021 Prayers from northern Illinois 🙏 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jingles1928 Posted December 5, 2021 Share Posted December 5, 2021 🙏 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frank H Posted December 5, 2021 Share Posted December 5, 2021 That's a rough go. God bless you and your wife and may He help you and console you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acem Posted December 5, 2021 Share Posted December 5, 2021 I'm sorry for your loss. I have many friends who have been through this. They were told it's common. Their doctors weren't concerned until they had three in a row... Again, Im sorry for your loss. Keep trying! Thx-Ace Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acem Posted December 5, 2021 Share Posted December 5, 2021 Also, my mother was told she couldn't have any children, she was barren. Dad had two from his previous marriage so he was OK. I am told they were quite shocked when I came along. Keep trying! Thx-Ace Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vtfireman85 Posted December 5, 2021 Share Posted December 5, 2021 So very sorry Jake, my prayers are with you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeeper61 Posted December 5, 2021 Share Posted December 5, 2021 Thoughts and Prayers sent Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rainman Posted December 5, 2021 Share Posted December 5, 2021 Mader, Prayer & thoughts for family! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Farmerboy72 Posted December 5, 2021 Share Posted December 5, 2021 Thoughts and prayers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ihfan4life Posted December 5, 2021 Share Posted December 5, 2021 So sorry to be reading this Mader. I know it’s hard to understand but when you get to Heaven you will be welcomed as Jake, father of Our Child Angel ______! Welcome Home ! I mean this with all sincerity; 🙏🙏🙏 Sid Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrfred54 Posted December 5, 2021 Share Posted December 5, 2021 Prayers sent from Michigan and also pray for the Oxford community after the school shooting Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
junkandcattle Posted December 5, 2021 Share Posted December 5, 2021 8 hours ago, iowaboy1965 said: So sorry mader! 😞thoughts and prayers to you, your wife and whole family. x2 So sorry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TN Hillbilly Posted December 5, 2021 Share Posted December 5, 2021 Very sorry for you and your wife. Trying to have a baby is an emotional roller coaster, thought we had lost our last one at 6 weeks. Prayin for you both. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mader656 Posted December 6, 2021 Share Posted December 6, 2021 This one was a unplanned surprise 2 weeks ago. Would have been number 4. She was only 8 weeks. Amazing you can love someone so tiny so much. I went to church today...hard...even worse was the baby dedication...I thank God for the church family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stronger800 Posted December 6, 2021 Share Posted December 6, 2021 for sure. So sorry for your loss. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rrr4quality Posted December 6, 2021 Share Posted December 6, 2021 So sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JaredT Posted December 6, 2021 Share Posted December 6, 2021 6 hours ago, hillman said: to the others, if you know a young couple who do not have children yet please don't ask them when they are going to start a family! they may be having trouble or may not ever be able to have a child and your asking could be causing more hurt than you can imagine behind the scenes I am speaking from experience and it can be life changing ( Thats more about my personal life than I have ever posted) I totally agree, 7 years of listening to people be idiots and insensitive. We thankfully have 5 healthy children now. Our thought are with you and yours, never been there, wont even try to say I know how you feel. We never know the bigger picture and it isnt always the way we want it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thesd5488 Posted December 6, 2021 Share Posted December 6, 2021 Sorry to hear I never would have understood your pain till I had kids Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
searcyfarms Posted December 6, 2021 Share Posted December 6, 2021 oh man jacob im so sorry, my wife talks about how she has comfort because she gets to see the children she lost in heaven in perfect bodies and she will know them - i am so thankful you have a wonderful church and friends for support no way I can understand but my heart aches for you and your family Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dale560 Posted December 6, 2021 Share Posted December 6, 2021 Thoughts and prayers to you and your family. It is a very tough time to sort your own thoughts through . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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