Rules for Facebook: 1) no locals. I can and do see you all the time. 2) No work or people from work(see above).3) Learn how to use the privacy settings! 4) Be very careful with relatives. 5) Don't get into the friends number race. I have 104 after three years, hardly any were added without thought. Remember,you are the moderator of your page. You really have a lot of control if you pay attention and read the tutorials. My biggest fear was stalkers but apparently some women become reticent of their youthful behavior as they mature. Not that a few haven't made their presence discreetly known. The flip side is it's a great surveillance tool. It's been fantastic for finding parts. I've reconnected with friends from College, Rodeo and old employers and that has been the most gratifying thing of all. Some things are hard. Finding out the old friends that have passed over the years all at once was the worst. Seeing the nightmare that some peoples lives have become gives you perspective.